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Saturday, January 3
ah blog,
just finished clearing all my mails, FINALLY!
parts of my emails are from the horoscope newsletter, and it was really intended for just random horoscope viewing initially, but then realise they do have quite a number of interesting articles on life, friendships, work, stress, fun, love, etc~ or at least to me, some are interesting.. haha..
saw that capricorn profile, and find that quite a few points seem pretty related to me?
except for "always planning ahead" and stuffs.. http://www.californiapsychics.com/articles/Features/2967/Capricorn_Profile.aspx
haha.. oh well..
then, i saw these, which I dont know will it help anyone here.. but just post it still ~
If you want to improve your odds of success in love, there are three simple facts you need to face - whether we're single or in a relationship.
First, no one person is perfect.
Second, no matter how close they are to perfect, no one person is going to fulfill every need any of us has.
And third, each and every one of us changes over time.
Translation? Perfect today may not be so great down the road. Life ebbs and flows and requires the ability to adapt (read: no happily ever after). Likewise, "the one" is not some magical figure who will waltz into your life and effortlessly fit into it.
Shift your perspective~
Armed with this knowledge, it's time to create a new paradigm for love - and plan accordingly. What does this mean? First and foremost, it's recognizing that "the one" is whoever you choose them to be. That is not to say you can make someone love you or force yourself to love the person in front of you. Instead, it means that compatibility is the factor that best determines a relationship's longevity, not some external force or intense feeling of desire or "knowing." Stop looking for that sign from above and look for the sign from within.
How do you feel when you're with this person? Beyond starry-eyed and desirous, do you have the same goals? Do you communicate well with each other? Are you able to work through conflicts together? Can you see yourselves as a functioning, well-balanced pair in a life that would make both of you happy? These are the questions to ask yourself…
Of course, attraction is also important - vital even. But lust alone does not a successful pairing make. The ability to compromise may very well be the most important determinant of a couple's odds.
seriously need to start working on my report! 4 hours wasted! =S
gogogo~ happy everyone!
daisy blogged @
- - >> TRY THIS too!
but must save and send it thru email!
I used the link they send me to place it here!
click the monkey! > 
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