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Wednesday, November 17
The ability of compromising.
It is a very powerful ability when two people have not-so-perfect communication.
No two beings is perfectly compatible for each other.
whenever we see a pair that seem to be made perfect for each other, whether it is based on looks, personality, goals, or attitude, please do keep in mind that these are not the only factors that make the couple so great together.
Its the power of understanding, power of communication and definitely, power of compromising.
Dont ever think that to compromise is to lose part of yourselves! every relationship, be it friendship or love relationship, consists of infinite sacrifices. And why sacrifice? it is to keep the relationship going strong, physically and mentally.
Of course, talking about sacrifices, nobody can judge whether that one person is sacrificing too much or too little. Perhaps, by sacrificing, one gets to help the other succeed, whom in turn "compensate" by appreciating. <- Yes, appreciating is a powerful ability too!
What would be so bad about that? As I said, no one being is perfect, we live in harmony and lovingly because each of us take a step back whenever theres a dispute. Theres always a saying, why let one negative emotion takes charge and hurt our very precious loved ones? Its never worth it.
Indeed, I may envy that couple whom husband never ever win a fight before, not because he cant or that he's in the wrong, but just that he dont see a point in doing so when he has already won her heart.
However, sadly, in present and all common relationships, this is so hardly understood and achieved between couples. Yet we cant just conclude that these couples do not love as much as the said husband. But probably in a pointless way. or maybe that is how one understands more about each other? Love is just such a complicating subject, isnt it?
Coming back to compromising, one should not compromise if one feels taken advantage of or has been wronged very badly. While you compromise, there should be mutual respect for both parties, complete honesty in how you feel and think, and most importantly, you compromise for the good intention!!
What I believe is, if both parties are willing to take turns to compromise or even just a sincere "sorry" for the fight, take turns to resolve the dispute and initiate to heal each other (hugs and kisses! and a lot other tiny sweet actions~), of course with a good talk afterwards, each relationship will grow and deepen further in the soul and spiritual way, wont they?
Yes, I understand all the above statements may not be strong enough to represent every situation and every couple, and there would definitely be alot of "unless.." and "buts..", however, these are just what I am thinking and feeling at the very current moment! =]]
So, good luck to all couples, friends out there! =)
What do you think of the saying, "Dont be afraid to Love! Dont care about what others think, mushiness will never never be outdated! Slight revenge is a good thing, if it comes with a good intention." ?
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